Nollywood actress Beverly Naya shared an in-depth insight into boundaries surrounding relationships, and knowing when to let go of people.
In her post, Beverly Naya wrote;
”One of the most powerful lessons I’ve learnt is that setting boundaries isn’t just about protecting your peace…it’s about making space for the right people to stay
in your life.
I honestly used to struggle with saying ‘no’ or speaking up when something didn’t sit right with me, but the moment I began to clearly define what I could and couldn’t accept, something magical happened: the right people respected my boundaries, and
those who didn’t naturally faded away.
At first, it felt uncomfortable…like I was being too harsh or difficult. But the truth is, when you create boundaries, you’re not being difficult, you’re choosing yourself
You’re showing the world how you deserve to be treated. It’s about valuing your energy and knowing that you have every right to protect it.
Now, when I reflect on those relationships that couldn’t withstand my boundaries, I see it as a blessing.
We don’t need to hold onto people or situations that drain us. The ones meant to
stay will honour your boundaries (and vice
versa), and that’s how you know you’re
creating space for healthier, more fulfilling
connections.
Just remember: boundaries don’t push the
right people away, they invite them closer. Let them be your guide, and watch how your life fills with the right energy and people who truly”
Beverly Osu often shares informative posts on her social media accounts, whether it’s about mental health, accepting your skin color as a black woman, or advocating for natural hair care among African women.
The stunning actress has often lent her voice to societal discourses, and this has slowly become her staple online persona for a long time now.
