Nigerian producer and singer, Olumide Ogunade better known as ID Cabasa has shared words of wisdom about marriage with the public.
The singer, in an interview with Debbie Shokoya on her YouTube channel, revealed that there is no perfection in marriage. He advised intending couples to get perfection out of their mind when looking for a partner as there is no perfect marriage.
According to him, when couples are lovey-dovey on social media, it doesn’t mean they don’t have issues, but fights are part of loving someone.
Speaking on submission, he revealed that being submissive doesn’t mean you surrender to one but you allow his voice to be heard.
ID Cabasa added that marriage is a responsibility and love isn’t enough for it.
“Being submissive to a man doesn’t mean you surrender to him. They are two different things, submission is coming from a place of you are powerful but I want you to actually listen to me too. But we see submission from the way we’ve listened to. You submit to your husband as long as it’s godly.
When the Bible says a man should love his woman like Christ loved the church. Do you know what Christ did for the church, he died for us. But that doesn’t mean a man should die for a woman but it’s more about your emotion.
Let me be honest, women are more powerful than they think faster than we do.
Because we don’t know what it is to submit, we see submission from the place of surrendering
“Get perfection out of your mind when it comes to marriage. There is no perfect marriage, I am lovey-dovey with my wife doesn’t mean we get it right every time. The day you stop fighting with your wife, you’ll be more scared. It’s because you have feelings for someone that’s why you guys fight, if you don’t, you wouldn’t care what they do.
Marriage is a responsibility, love is good but it isn’t enough. You need commitment and more. One of the problems of marriage is See-finish”.
Recall that in a past interview, ID Cabasa said there were times in the past when he considered ending his marriage.
The producer spoke about his marriage to Sijuade Ogunade in an interview with Chude Jideonwo, the media personality, where he revealed he couldn’t leave his wife because of her contribution to his life.
He also recalled the sacrifices she made for him and the memories they have both shared.
ID Cabasa tied the knot to Sijuade in 2007.
In other news, ID Cabasa had opened up on the online drama between his friend, 9ice, and his ex-wife, Toni Payne.
In an interview with Chude Jideonwo, Cabasa exposed 9ice’s true personality and revealed how heartbroken he was when the whole drama was happening. He stated that if he was in the picture during that time, then the whole drama wouldn’t have happened.
ID Cabasa described the whole thing as the most painful episode as Seun (Toni Payne) was a nice woman and both of them were good together, as he gave insight into the drama and how furious he was he was when he heard of it, especially with 9ice.
