Nollywood actress and pastor, Obot Etuk has cautioned the youths on the words they use in their victory speech.
The actress, noted how many are fond of undermining the efforts of their parents, by saying they come from nothing.
Obot Etuk warned them to stop embarrassing their parents. She stated that whatever they had, was what their parents could afford and they gave it with love.
Obot Etuk advised them to praise their parents and make them feel better.
“In your victory speech ladies and gentlemen. Never embarrass the effort of your parents by saying you came from nothing. Whatever you had them was what they could afford. And they gave it to you with love.
Make them feel better by praising them.
Remember, we real what we sow”.
Obot Etuk’s take on sex before marriage
Years back, Obot Etuk had stirred controversy with her relationship advice for young ladies.
According to her, if a man insisted on sex before marriage, then he’s not the right person for the woman.
She wrote;
“My young lady……..
If he is insisting on sex before marriage, he is not the man for you.
You cannot use sex to prove love. Goats have sex.
Infact, dogs have sex and everywhere too but they are not in love.
If sex means love, then the prostitute should fall in love with every man she has sex with.
Sex is meant for marriage young lady.
Waiting is the real love. It is mark of maturity. That is the kind of
man you should say yes to, not the one that wants you to compromise your
virtue, pride, dignity, just to satisfy his lust.
And how many will you love cos I’m sure he’s not the only man you’ve had sex with.”
