Nollywood actor Sola Olaibi Gaji has opened up on his crashed marriage.
The actor in an interview with his colleague, Biola Bayo on her podcast, Talk to B, revealed that his wife got tired of him and left. According to him, his wife changed and all of a sudden told him she no longer wanted to be in a relationship with him anymore, and he allowed her go.
The Yoruba actor, who loves to play comic characters in movies, said he is the type of man to allow his woman date other men, but she shouldn’t leave his house. He disclosed that he is the romantic type who can travel from state to state to get something for his woman and would call her 97 times in day.
He noted how there is no perfect man and woman, as such, one has to manage his or her partners.
“Me and Mummy Eniola in all the apartment we have been staying they never believed she is my wife, they thought she is my lil sis.
If the person who is my partner deny me access to her I think about it.
You can never know I am stubborn until I hurt someone. Someone who is in Abeokuta and me staying in Lagos, you can see that love is blind.
You know if my wife send me to go get her Amala at Amala sky in Ibadan, do you know I will go? Olaiya was one of the people who gave me courage to approach. I later regret it.
My wife got changed and all of a sudden she told me she no longer wants to be in a relationship with me anymore. Even if you have someone you’re dating outside, I am not stopping you from marrying the person. But don’t leave my house. Let people sill me and you as husband and wīfe.
Men are not good while also women, but we are just trying ourselves. If I am dating you I can call you for like 97times”.
His interview left many applauding him for not badmouthing his ex-wife like others.
One Funmibb6602 wrote, “I love this man for appreciating his ex-wife
One Christopher Hudson wrote, “Men really need to learn fork this. For the fact that he is not even with his Ex again, he still didn’t talk bad about this woman.
One Ajayi Atinuke wrote, “For the first time I see a man telling the truth about himself. It’s a good having you on Talk to B”.
In December, actor, Peter Ijagbemi, revealed that his marriage has ended, as his wife pulled the plug because she noticed a change in him and things got to a point where they were having daily issues, especially since he didn’t flaunt her on social media.
Peter admitted that though he has his flaws, his wife wasn’t perfect either but because of their kids and the fact that she was a good wife to him, he wouldn’t speak on it. He disclosed that they met in 2011, got married in 2016, and broke up in 2022.
Also, the widow wife of veteran actor, Ajigijaga had recounted her ordeal with his family, revealing how her in-laws sent her out of the house the same day he was buried.
In other news, Actress Shola Kosoko shared her two cents on her stance about divorces especially when it affects one’s life. Using a popular Yoruba adage, she stated that women should be able to decide on their own while adding that no marriage is worth one’s life.
Elsewhere in the interview, she revealed how religion almost hindered her from marrying her husband.
