Social commentator and relationship expert Solomon Buchi has taken to the X platform to share some insights on victimhood.
He expressed that playing victim can be very limiting and that people who play victim will only be able to get sympathy and attention. He also revealed that the day a person decides to stop playing the victim, they will be able to have and lead better lives.
He further expressed that victimhood will only get you pity and at the end of the day, that will be the only thing that you will be able to attain.
In his words, he says,
“the day you refuse to stop always feeling like a victim, you will have a better life. Victimhood will get you some sympathy and attention and that will be all you can ever attain.”
Now recall that just 7 days ago, Solomon Buchi had dished out advice on why women must always check their partners. The relationship experts revealed that people who are married should be able to access each other’s phones comfortably.
He also went on to state that if you’re married, you should be able to grant your wife access to your location as he gave himself as an example. He revealed that when a person is open in a marriage, it helps with accountability and that you are able to open up about everything instead of falling into temptation.
Back in January of 2024, Solomon Buchi had expressed that when he had met his wife, he had told her just one week after meeting her that he was going to marry her. He also revealed that they had spoken for hours the night that they had met and he had narrated how he was going to pursue her and that it would lead to a marriage.
Three months after they met and one year after they started dating, he proposed to her. Solomon Buchi also dished out an advice to women as he revealed that if a man really wanted to be with you, he would not delay because he would always communicate his intentions with clarity and intentionality.
