Big Brother Naija’s former housemate, Tolanibaj has revealed her thoughts on the condition of marriages.
The reality star, via her Snapchat part, stated that she is convinced that most people are pretending to enjoy marriages this day. She made this known as she reacted to a Twitter influencer question on the one thing they are convinced people are pretending to enjoy. Replying to him, Tolanibaj stated that she believes it is marriage.
With the high rate of divorce on the rise and daily marital drama from AY Makun to Harrysong, Isreal DMW, and others, it’s not shocking for Tolanibaj to harbor such thoughts.
“What are you convinced people are pretending to enjoy”, the Twitter influencer asks.
She replied, “Marriage”.
See some reactions from netizens below,
One She’s Precious wrote, “That’s because the PR for bad marriage is more than the PR for good marriage. There are some people who really enjoy the companionship of a thing
One Sophie Salman wrote, “Abeg na true she dey talk. Most married people are miserable and no longer in love with each other. Just there to fulfill all righteousness, but y’all can deny all you want
One Sbn Michael wrote, “80% of happily married people don’t even come online to talk about it
One Honey Ojukwu wrote, “Honestly a lot of us are pretending to be loving what we don’t like. Tolani spoke her truth. I’m proud of her. Honestly, a lot of people are stuck
One Miss Hermbe wrote, “People are a product of their experiences. You can’t tell her what to feel
One Spencer wrote, “Marriage is for people who are committed to marriage”.
In a recent Instagram post, Tolani Baj opened up about her reservations concerning marriage.
She had an interesting exchange with a fan named William on Snapchat who had suggested that she should consider getting married.
Tolani Baj’s response was quite candid, where she expressed her doubts about the happiness of married individuals. This candid confession hints at the possibility that she might choose not to pursue the institution of marriage in the future, a stance that sparked discussions among some netizens.
In a past post, Tbaj had officially revealed that she needed a break from men. While speaking about her dating preferences, sometimes back, she said she wanted a partner who possessed a passport, indicating her desire to share her passion for travel and exploration with him.
Let’s recall that while she was in Big Brother All-Star’s house, she and Neo had been in a very controversial relationship. This was made worse by the fact that they had both never accepted that they were dating.
She even went as far as getting into altercations with other girls in the house in a bid to keep them away from him.
Following her eviction, she unfollowed Neo Akpofure after he was captured kissing her rival, Ilebaye.
Feeling betrayed, Tolanibaj who had fought Ilebaye over her man on multiple occasions, gave up on him as she unfollowed Neo on Instagram.
