In a recent episode of the “Bad and Bougie Podcast” with hosts Moet Abebe and Tolani Baj, Nigerian actor Etim Effiong spoke on the approach to financial aid between male and female actors in Nigeria.
Addressing Moet’s question on why fewer female actors publicly seek financial assistance, Effiong spoke on the ingrained societal norms. He explained that in many Nigerian communities, men are traditionally expected to handle the financial burdens, including those of women. This, he suggests, leads to a higher visibility of men seeking financial aid, as opposed to women who are usually supported by men.
Effiong emphasized that men often choose to bear their financial burdens silently rather than seek help from women. He noted that a man’s priority upon earning is typically his family’s wellbeing. In cases of financial hardship, men tend to publicly seek help rather than approach women for assistance, reflecting the societal belief that it is unusual for women to financially support men.
Effiong’s personal life has also been a topic of interest. In a notable incident in 2022, he humorously asked his wife, Toyosi, for permission to have a side-chick during a live chat. Toyosi’s playful reply, suggesting a mutual exchange, amusingly caught Effiong off guard. This humorous interaction shed light on their playful and dynamic relationship.
Adding to their public persona, the couple joyfully announced the arrival of their second child, a baby boy, last year. They shared this special moment on social media with a touching photo of their newborn. Furthermore, in June 2022, Toyasi celebrated Effiong’s birthday with a heartfelt social media post, acknowledging his quiet demeanor while expressing her love and admiration for him.
