Expectedly, beauty queens are not
permitted to be in a relationship during their reign. Most of them claim
they abide by that rule, including the current Miss Nigeria, Chioma
Obiadi.
permitted to be in a relationship during their reign. Most of them claim
they abide by that rule, including the current Miss Nigeria, Chioma
Obiadi.
When Saturday Beats asked the
young beauty queen how she has been able to cope with that, she said it
was just a protective measure put in place for her to stay away from
scandals and other “unnecessary things.”
young beauty queen how she has been able to cope with that, she said it
was just a protective measure put in place for her to stay away from
scandals and other “unnecessary things.”
She said, “One needs to be protected
against scandals. Some of these scandals come from people who you are
close to and trust. It is just a protective clause to help me to be
better.”
against scandals. Some of these scandals come from people who you are
close to and trust. It is just a protective clause to help me to be
better.”
According to her, it will be hard to
keep a relationship as she has been overwhelmed with both her school’s
activities and her role as Miss Nigeria. But then, the pretty girl said
the clause has not hindered guys from stalking her.
keep a relationship as she has been overwhelmed with both her school’s
activities and her role as Miss Nigeria. But then, the pretty girl said
the clause has not hindered guys from stalking her.
She added, “I have stalkers. Every girl
has a stalker, but I feel God has given us a way to handle it without
hurting anyone. I was not even in a relationship before becoming Miss
Nigeria. I have been jostling between school and Miss Nigeria, so I
barely have time.
has a stalker, but I feel God has given us a way to handle it without
hurting anyone. I was not even in a relationship before becoming Miss
Nigeria. I have been jostling between school and Miss Nigeria, so I
barely have time.
“The way I handle men now is pretty much
the same way I handled men before I won the pageant. I have been a girl
all through my life and I feel all girls get pressure from men. Like I
said earlier, the organisation is very protective. So, they have in a
way protected me from unnecessary exposure. If they feel an exposure is
not good for me, they don’t let me experience it.”
the same way I handled men before I won the pageant. I have been a girl
all through my life and I feel all girls get pressure from men. Like I
said earlier, the organisation is very protective. So, they have in a
way protected me from unnecessary exposure. If they feel an exposure is
not good for me, they don’t let me experience it.”
She, however, admitted that winning Miss
Nigeria was her turning point, as her life became better and her ideas
became bigger than they used to be.
Nigeria was her turning point, as her life became better and her ideas
became bigger than they used to be.
“The lowest point is learning how to be
patient, especially with the environmental battle I’ve embarked on. It
is very tough. We had a beach cleanup two weeks ago and before we
finished cleaning up half of it, the other part which was already
cleaned up had been messed up again. That was very frustrating, so it
takes patience and passion for one to actually keep doing that.”
patient, especially with the environmental battle I’ve embarked on. It
is very tough. We had a beach cleanup two weeks ago and before we
finished cleaning up half of it, the other part which was already
cleaned up had been messed up again. That was very frustrating, so it
takes patience and passion for one to actually keep doing that.”
The beauty queen said she intends to complete her education once she is through with her reign.
“I don’t believe in starting up
something when you are not ready for it. I believe you have to lay your
bed properly before you lie on it. I have a couple of business ideas,
but I have yet to make up my mind. I don’t feel bad that the spotlight
will be off from me soon. I wish I could still hold on to it because
once you’ve eaten sugar, you don’t want to stop. But don’t forget that
if you keep eating sugar, you will get diabetes. I think I have had my
own share and I have gathered things I can tap from to become whoever I
want to be. The wise thing for me is to grow and become a greater
person. I am just looking forward to handing over to the next Miss
Nigeria.”
something when you are not ready for it. I believe you have to lay your
bed properly before you lie on it. I have a couple of business ideas,
but I have yet to make up my mind. I don’t feel bad that the spotlight
will be off from me soon. I wish I could still hold on to it because
once you’ve eaten sugar, you don’t want to stop. But don’t forget that
if you keep eating sugar, you will get diabetes. I think I have had my
own share and I have gathered things I can tap from to become whoever I
want to be. The wise thing for me is to grow and become a greater
person. I am just looking forward to handing over to the next Miss
Nigeria.”
Already the search for the next Miss Nigeria has begun and the organisers told Saturday Beats that even though the event was rested for about 20 years, it is here to stay.
