Multiple award winning singer, Nikki
Laoye, told Saturday Beats she and her husband got married as virgins.
She said that contrary to popular belief that virgins have boring
marriages and are clueless when it comes to making love, she said she
knew what she was doing the first time they had sex because she had
learnt a lot about sex education.
Laoye, told Saturday Beats she and her husband got married as virgins.
She said that contrary to popular belief that virgins have boring
marriages and are clueless when it comes to making love, she said she
knew what she was doing the first time they had sex because she had
learnt a lot about sex education.
She said:
“My husband was not surprised
that I was a virgin when we got married because he was also a virgin.
Even though I was a virgin when I got married, I had equipped myself
with information on sex education. I preach to Christian ladies that
they should not think that because they are virgins, they should not
find out how to get things done because when they get there, they have
work to do. It has been fun and an adventure for us because we are
finding out things about ourselves.”
that I was a virgin when we got married because he was also a virgin.
Even though I was a virgin when I got married, I had equipped myself
with information on sex education. I preach to Christian ladies that
they should not think that because they are virgins, they should not
find out how to get things done because when they get there, they have
work to do. It has been fun and an adventure for us because we are
finding out things about ourselves.”
Laoye said she decided to remain a
virgin because being a very emotional person, she would not like to
sleep with any man that she would not get married to. The songstress
admitted that although she was tempted, she stuck to her vow.
virgin because being a very emotional person, she would not like to
sleep with any man that she would not get married to. The songstress
admitted that although she was tempted, she stuck to her vow.
“I decided to remain a virgin till I got
married. I did not just want to be jumping from one man to another. It
is often said that once you pop the cherry, you can’t stop and I did not
want to deal with sexual issues while I was dealing with my life and
education. I also did not want to get pregnant, so I told God to help
me. I was tempted a lot but I was blessed to have wonderful
relationships whereby the men respected my decision and even helped me
to keep my promise. My husband also told me that he kept himself for a
special woman. The truth is that now that I am having a lot of sex, I
have come to realise that it is very emotional and it should be done
with someone you will love to see the next day.”
married. I did not just want to be jumping from one man to another. It
is often said that once you pop the cherry, you can’t stop and I did not
want to deal with sexual issues while I was dealing with my life and
education. I also did not want to get pregnant, so I told God to help
me. I was tempted a lot but I was blessed to have wonderful
relationships whereby the men respected my decision and even helped me
to keep my promise. My husband also told me that he kept himself for a
special woman. The truth is that now that I am having a lot of sex, I
have come to realise that it is very emotional and it should be done
with someone you will love to see the next day.”
The dark-skinned singer advised young
ladies to abstain from pre-marital sex. She said sex was worth waiting
for and that their husbands would respect them more.
ladies to abstain from pre-marital sex. She said sex was worth waiting
for and that their husbands would respect them more.
“Sex is worth waiting for and the truth
is that if you do it, when you are married, you would have plenty of it.
I have plenty of it and I am never tired of it because it is with
someone that I love. It is fun and we come up with a lot of crazy ideas
and we are never guilty about our actions. It is worth waiting for and
the man would respect you because he knows that you could have slept
with every Tom, Dick and Harry but you decided to wait,” she said.
is that if you do it, when you are married, you would have plenty of it.
I have plenty of it and I am never tired of it because it is with
someone that I love. It is fun and we come up with a lot of crazy ideas
and we are never guilty about our actions. It is worth waiting for and
the man would respect you because he knows that you could have slept
with every Tom, Dick and Harry but you decided to wait,” she said.
